Shy but not...that's a real thing!

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I can be somewhat introvert and shy when around new people but once I warm up I am more outgoing. Friends would say that I am funny, a little sarcastic - in a good way, loyal and responsible. I have a handful of close friends and that is by choice. I am very career driven, financially secure and would like to meet someone who is the same as well as responsible (mentally and financially). I am very comfortable hanging out at home or going out for drinks or dinner. I do love to travel but haven't done it enough. I tend to go for more relaxing vacations. A beach, a book, and a beer/margarita/wine lol..love it! I am not the adventurous type - sky diving, base jumping or deep sea diving are not in my future. Sometimes I am chatty (once I know you well or have had a glass of wine!) but I can also be quiet. I really don't mind comfortable silence. I am not a supermodel, I eat burgers and fries. I should exercise but haven't found the motivation to do so. I am 48 but don't look or act like it so someone younger than me is alright. I am into looks in that there has to be a physical spark and attraction/chemistry. (Please have or send a photo) I am half Puerto Rican, German and some other stuff (basically a mutt lol) but I tend to relate more with my Latina side. I love Puerto Rican food (yes I can cook but hate doing dishes!) music, dance, culture, etc. I am not bilingual because I was raised by the German/mutt side of the family but I speak enough to get around. I can be sensitive, caring and compassionate with the right person. I have been widowed, divorced and single. I cannot tolerate people who are not honest, faithful and loyal. The lack of these traits are why I am here now...thank you husband #2! I am extremely private about my HSV, I have things well under control but no one in my circle knows. I've had one serious relationship since my divorce and having to disclose my situation wasn't fun. This is why I am grateful for a site like this to get the opportunity to meet someone who understands and knows what it's like to be in these shoes and this doesn't have to be what defines me. As you can see I've been brutally honest...

Sign

Aries

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 3 (1.6 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian, Hispanic/latino

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Strategically Placed Tattoo

My Hair Is

Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat, Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Administrative / Management

My Job Title Is

Senior Management

I Make This Much In A Year

$100,000USD To $150,000USD

I Live

With Kid(s)

I have

HSV-2 (herpes type 20)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Trying To Quit

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Anti-social, Comedic, Flirtatious

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Family, Dining, Reading, Music, Tv, Movies, Games, Dancing, Travel, Playing Cards

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Coffee or drinks to talk and see if there is compatibility and chemistry.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Going on a safari, playing with a baby elephant, traveling more and learning how to do more DIY.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Raunchy, Goofy, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

My goal in life is to be happy, with or without someone else. I want to experience new places, different cultures, and enjoy whatever I do. Iam financially secure enough to have the opportunity to do these things and want someone who is equally as secure.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Raunchy

On Tv, I Always Watch

Cartoons, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Pop, Latin, New age, Dance, Reggae

When I Read, I Always Read

Fantasy, Fiction, Humor, Science Fiction, Romance, Supernatural

My Idea Of Fun Is

Playing pool, having dinner and drinks with good company, concerts, and sometimes being a little lazy and binge watching a good show or reading a good book.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

I do look at a person's attractiveness first - as do we all. But that isn't what make us attractive on the inside so I look for someone who is strong, secure in who they are, driven, compassionate, responsible mentally and financially. I've always had to be the responsible one in my relationships- it would be nice to have someone I can lean on once in awhile for a change. Good sense of humor, giving, and thoughtful. A nice physical appearance - fit/toned. Preferably Latin or Caucasian. I do not want to behave like someone's parent so a man that is strong enough to withstand my strong personality but isn't passive all the time. Someone who likes to travel. A man that is attentive but not smothering. I like to hug and hold hands in public. A gentleman who will open my doors and show respect for women even if they are independent. Someone willing to take the time to understand me and my wants and needs not just their own.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Committed