Shy but not...that's a real thing!

Ich kann sprechen

Englisch

Ich würde mich selbst beschreiben als

I can be somewhat introvert and shy when around new people but once I warm up I am more outgoing. Friends would say that I am funny, a little sarcastic - in a good way, loyal and responsible. I have a handful of close friends and that is by choice. I am very career driven, financially secure and would like to meet someone who is the same as well as responsible (mentally and financially). I am very comfortable hanging out at home or going out for drinks or dinner. I do love to travel but haven't done it enough. I tend to go for more relaxing vacations. A beach, a book, and a beer/margarita/wine lol..love it! I am not the adventurous type - sky diving, base jumping or deep sea diving are not in my future. Sometimes I am chatty (once I know you well or have had a glass of wine!) but I can also be quiet. I really don't mind comfortable silence. I am not a supermodel, I eat burgers and fries. I should exercise but haven't found the motivation to do so. I am 48 but don't look or act like it so someone younger than me is alright. I am into looks in that there has to be a physical spark and attraction/chemistry. (Please have or send a photo) I am half Puerto Rican, German and some other stuff (basically a mutt lol) but I tend to relate more with my Latina side. I love Puerto Rican food (yes I can cook but hate doing dishes!) music, dance, culture, etc. I am not bilingual because I was raised by the German/mutt side of the family but I speak enough to get around. I can be sensitive, caring and compassionate with the right person. I have been widowed, divorced and single. I cannot tolerate people who are not honest, faithful and loyal. The lack of these traits are why I am here now...thank you husband #2! I am extremely private about my HSV, I have things well under control but no one in my circle knows. I've had one serious relationship since my divorce and having to disclose my situation wasn't fun. This is why I am grateful for a site like this to get the opportunity to meet someone who understands and knows what it's like to be in these shoes and this doesn't have to be what defines me. As you can see I've been brutally honest...

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Widder

Mein Körpertyp ist

Durchschnittlich

Meine Größe ist

5' 3 (1.6 m)

Meine Augen sind

Blau

Meine Herkunft ist

Kaukasisch, Hispanic/Latino

Mein Familienstand ist

Geschieden

Ich habe Kinder

Ja - Zuhause

Ich möchte Kinder

Nein

Meine beste Eigenschaft ist

Augen

Körperkunst

Gepierct... Aber nur die Ohren, Strategisch platzierte Tattoos

Mein Haar ist

Braun

Ich habe ein oder mehrere folgende Haustiere

Katze, Hund

Bereit umzuziehen

Nein

Mein Ausbildungsgrad ist

Hochschul-Abschluss

Mein derzeitiges Dienstverhältnis ist

Vollzeit

Meine Spezialität ist

Organisation / Management

Mein Job-Titel ist

Senior Management

Ich verdiene im Jahr so viel

$100,000USD bis $159,000USD

Ich lebe

Mit Kind(ern)

Ich habe

HVS-2 (Herpes Type 20)

Zuhause

Alles ist ruhig

Ich bin Raucher

Ja - Versuche aufzuhören

Ich trinke

Ja - Sozial

In der Hauptschule war ich

Stille(r)

Mein soziales Verhalten ist

Reserviert, Schüchtern, Aufmerksam, Anti-Sozial, Comedian, Flirtwillig

Meine Interessen und Hobbys sind

Familie, Essen gehen, Lesen, Musik, TV, Filme, Spiele, Tanzen, Reisen, Karten spielen

Meine Vorstellung einer tollen Zeit ist

Mit Freunden ausgehen, Shoppen gehen, Daheim bleiben, Filme, Entspannen, Ein Buch lesen, Ins Casino gehen, TV, In ein Konzert gehen, In ein Museum gehen

Ein ideales erstes Date wäre

Coffee or drinks to talk and see if there is compatibility and chemistry.

Ich wollte immer schon versuchen

Going on a safari, playing with a baby elephant, traveling more and learning how to do more DIY.

Meine Freunde beschreiben mich als

Scharf, Albern, Ein Flirt

Meine Religion ist

Christ

Ich besuche Gottesdienste

Nie

Mein Ziel im Leben ist

My goal in life is to be happy, with or without someone else. I want to experience new places, different cultures, and enjoy whatever I do. Iam financially secure enough to have the opportunity to do these things and want someone who is equally as secure.

Mein Art Humor ist

Clever, Trocken / Sarkastisch, Albern, Scharf

Im Fernsehen sehe ich mir Folgendes gerne an

Cartoons, Dramen, Situations-Komödien, Filme

Wenn ich ins Kino gehe, sehe ich immer

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romanze, Drama, Familie, Animation, Thriller

Wenn ich mir Musik anhöre, höre ich immer

Rock, Pop, Lating, New Age, Dance, Reggae

Wenn ich lese, lese ich immer

Fantasy, Fiction, Humor, Science Fiction, Romanze, Superhelden

Meine Vorstellung von Spaß ist

Playing pool, having dinner and drinks with good company, concerts, and sometimes being a little lazy and binge watching a good show or reading a good book.

Was findest du attraktiv?

Esprit, Flirtwillig, Humor, Gutes Aussehen, Nachdenklich

Wonach suchst du?

I do look at a person's attractiveness first - as do we all. But that isn't what make us attractive on the inside so I look for someone who is strong, secure in who they are, driven, compassionate, responsible mentally and financially. I've always had to be the responsible one in my relationships- it would be nice to have someone I can lean on once in awhile for a change. Good sense of humor, giving, and thoughtful. A nice physical appearance - fit/toned. Preferably Latin or Caucasian. I do not want to behave like someone's parent so a man that is strong enough to withstand my strong personality but isn't passive all the time. Someone who likes to travel. A man that is attentive but not smothering. I like to hug and hold hands in public. A gentleman who will open my doors and show respect for women even if they are independent. Someone willing to take the time to understand me and my wants and needs not just their own.

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