Shy but not...that's a real thing!

Ik spreek:

Engels

Ik beschrijf mezelf als:

I can be somewhat introvert and shy when around new people but once I warm up I am more outgoing. Friends would say that I am funny, a little sarcastic - in a good way, loyal and responsible. I have a handful of close friends and that is by choice. I am very career driven, financially secure and would like to meet someone who is the same as well as responsible (mentally and financially). I am very comfortable hanging out at home or going out for drinks or dinner. I do love to travel but haven't done it enough. I tend to go for more relaxing vacations. A beach, a book, and a beer/margarita/wine lol..love it! I am not the adventurous type - sky diving, base jumping or deep sea diving are not in my future. Sometimes I am chatty (once I know you well or have had a glass of wine!) but I can also be quiet. I really don't mind comfortable silence. I am not a supermodel, I eat burgers and fries. I should exercise but haven't found the motivation to do so. I am 48 but don't look or act like it so someone younger than me is alright. I am into looks in that there has to be a physical spark and attraction/chemistry. (Please have or send a photo) I am half Puerto Rican, German and some other stuff (basically a mutt lol) but I tend to relate more with my Latina side. I love Puerto Rican food (yes I can cook but hate doing dishes!) music, dance, culture, etc. I am not bilingual because I was raised by the German/mutt side of the family but I speak enough to get around. I can be sensitive, caring and compassionate with the right person. I have been widowed, divorced and single. I cannot tolerate people who are not honest, faithful and loyal. The lack of these traits are why I am here now...thank you husband #2! I am extremely private about my HSV, I have things well under control but no one in my circle knows. I've had one serious relationship since my divorce and having to disclose my situation wasn't fun. This is why I am grateful for a site like this to get the opportunity to meet someone who understands and knows what it's like to be in these shoes and this doesn't have to be what defines me. As you can see I've been brutally honest...

Sterrenbeeld

Ram

Mijn Lichaamstype Is

Gemiddeld

Mijn Lengte Is

5' 3 (1.6 m)

Mijn Ogen Zijn

Blauw

Mijn Ethniciteit Is

Blank, Latijns

Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is

Gescheiden

Ik Heb Kinderen

Ja - Bij Mij Thuis

Ik Wil Kinderen

Nee

Mijn Beste Eigenschap Is

Ogen

Body Art

Piercings, maar alleen in mijn oren, Strategisch geplaatste tatoeages

Mijn Haar Is

Bruin

Ik heb één of meer van deze

Kat, Hond

Ben je bereid te verhuizen?

Nee

Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is

VWO

Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is

Voltijd

Mijn specialisatie is

Administratief / Management

Mijn functie is:

Senior Management

Mijn jaarsalaris is:

Tussen de €100.000 en €150.000

Ik Woon

Met kind(eren)

Ik heb

HSV-2 (herpes type 20)

Bij mij thuis

Is het lekker rustig

Ik Ben Een Roker

Ja - Maar ik wil ophouden

Ik Drink

Ja - Als ik uitga

Op de middelbare school was ik

Stil

In sociale situaties ben ik

Gereserveerd, Verlegen, Opmerkzaam, Anti-sociaal, Grappig, Flirterig

Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn

Gezin, Eten, Lezen, Muziek, Tv, Films, Spellen, Dansen, Reizen, Kaarten spelen

Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is

Met Vrienden zijn, Winkelen, Thuis blijven, Films, Relaxen, Een boek lezen, Naar een casino gaan, Tv, Naar een concert gaan, Naar een museum gaan

Een perfecte eerste date is

Coffee or drinks to talk and see if there is compatibility and chemistry.

Wat ik altijd al eens heb willen proberen:

Going on a safari, playing with a baby elephant, traveling more and learning how to do more DIY.

Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als

Ranzig, Gek, Een Flirt

Mijn Geloof Is

Christelijk

Ik Ga Naar Diensten

Nooit

Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is

My goal in life is to be happy, with or without someone else. I want to experience new places, different cultures, and enjoy whatever I do. Iam financially secure enough to have the opportunity to do these things and want someone who is equally as secure.

Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is

Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Gek, Ranzig

Op tv kijk ik:

Tekenfilms, Drama's, Komedies, Films

In de bioscoop kijk ik:

Actie, Science Fiction, Komedie, Romantiek, Drama, Gezin, Animatie, Thriller

Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar

Rock, Pop, Latin, New Age, Dance, Reggae

Ik lees graag

Fantasy, Fictie, Humor, Science Fiction, Romantiek, Bovennatuurlijk

Mijn Idee Van Plezier is

Playing pool, having dinner and drinks with good company, concerts, and sometimes being a little lazy and binge watching a good show or reading a good book.

Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?

Gevatheid, Flirterig, Humor, Goed Uiterlijk, Bedachtzaamheid

Wat zoek je?

I do look at a person's attractiveness first - as do we all. But that isn't what make us attractive on the inside so I look for someone who is strong, secure in who they are, driven, compassionate, responsible mentally and financially. I've always had to be the responsible one in my relationships- it would be nice to have someone I can lean on once in awhile for a change. Good sense of humor, giving, and thoughtful. A nice physical appearance - fit/toned. Preferably Latin or Caucasian. I do not want to behave like someone's parent so a man that is strong enough to withstand my strong personality but isn't passive all the time. Someone who likes to travel. A man that is attentive but not smothering. I like to hug and hold hands in public. A gentleman who will open my doors and show respect for women even if they are independent. Someone willing to take the time to understand me and my wants and needs not just their own.

Waar ben je naar op zoek?

Vriend, Date, Vastigheid